hun back in the day the girls that lived in Georgia were all looked at as ladies there for they were called southern bells cause of their social status in the community, therefor they pretty much had all the best money, slaves, and ofc they looked down on ppl that were not in though group but after the war alot of things changed in georgia and over the yrs the ladies were no longer refered to being southern bells, but if u want know get a idea of what im talking bout watch Gone With The Wind, its a movie made bout Georgia and what we went though during that time period but it will give u a idea what we r talking bout hun....
and u will see why u couldnt pay me enough to be a southern bell cause for one i HATE wearing damn dresses and i dont like being nice all the time....lol...